forgetting
that it was "he who had come" (57). He sees her as an
irrational female presence, full of "symbols" which confuse
him when he tries to decipher them.
Though drawn to Winifred, Bernard fears to stay with her. He believes
that this is a fear caused by her lack of frankness, but this is
an excuse which conveniently allows him not to acknowledge what
his soul really craves for and run the danger of pursuing it. Even
worse, he explains his tame settling down with Connie as obedience
to the very instinct (63), whose dictates he willfully fails to
perceive, completely oblivious to its true nature and its multiple
demands. Though Winifred makes this discovery for him, he cannot
grasp her suggestion to follow his own male nature; that is, the
instinct which attracts him to the female in her, rather than the
conventional need to find a woman who will provide what he hopes
will be a stable point in his life.
Bernard blames Winifred
for having used him as her looking-glass "to see things in:
to hold up to the light." He accuses her of "abnormality,"
of imposing on him an identity which deprives him of his manliness,
his physical dimension, his very "blood" and "bone"
(64). However, beneath his self-justifying reasons, lies concealed
a deeper undercurrent of anger against the woman. He shows little
interest in discovering her real emotions and is all too ready
to characterize her as a shallow, frivolous person blissfully
unaware that such accusations apply far better to himself. His
refusal to approve of Winifred's independent life, is also part
of a desperate defence mechanism: he seems to have an unconscious
fear of her strong, intense personality and tendency to be judgmental,
precisely, because she can see and reveal truths about him which
he had rather not face.
The man, therefore,
projects upon Winifred the inner division he experiences, his
desire to reap the benefits of the social conventions and still
satisfy his pride by appearing to reject them. He blames her for
turning him into her "looking glass" (63) but it is
actually she, who functions as his looking-glass, the distorting
mirror that soothes his anxiety and rewards his clumsy efforts
to construct a personally and socially acceptable self-image.
He even fails to appreciate her sexual response, considering it
excessive and inauthentic: "an unnatural ebb of passion"
(65). The man sees her as a cruel predatory goddess, ever ready
to devour even those who serve her (64), and Lawrence likens her
insistently to a demonic figure, the title's "Witch à
la Mode," an unacceptable modern woman, bare-armed and quick-witted,
who still "looked up at him [Bernard] witch-like, from under
bent brows" (62).
Winifred's
complexity: The Woman Who
Escaped (from the stereotypes)
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Winifred is simultaneously
oppressed by Bernard's behaviour and oppressive towards him. This
distance between what she seems to be (cold, independent, inscrutable)
and what she might really be (sensitive, suffering and vulnerable)
creates two distinct perspectives which interrogate and challenge
each other's premises and make Winifred a character of considerable
complexity. It is through the semiology of her body, her stature
and movements, that Lawrence builds such a distant, unapproachable
character. There are scenes involving her which move with an almost
lightning speed, as they freeze action, bring the focus on her
and open the possibility of diverse views and multiple explanations
of her emotional world. At the same time they remain elusive in
the following examples of qualities which Bernard appears to see
in her: "she bowed richly to the piano" (CSS 62), "She
lay perfectly still and warm in the fire-glow" (64) "He
turned, saw her full, fine face tilted up to him. It showed pale,
distinct, and firm, very near to him" (58) [my emphases].
Overtly, Winifred does not oppose Bernard's accusations. She is
content to aim merely at wish fulfillment in order to get her
object of desire and, in this sense, she can be considered egoistical.
Thus, one way to perceive Winifred's
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tragedy would be to
explain it as a result of her egoism, her fear of emotional commitment,
her inability to open up and offer her real self to a man, her
tendency to oppress and her need for constant show of sympathy
and affection. Winifred, however, seems to have a different experience
of their relationship, an experience which she never communicates,as
she is invariably shown as an inscrutable, enigmatic figure. Yet,
she can convincingly illuminate what she sees as a conventional,
even puritanical, reaction on Bernard's part. She sounds perfectly
accurate when she reminds him that there are "many instincts"
a man can choose to obey.
Moreover, her agony becomes manifest when she wonders "why
that," why does Bernard sacrifice their passionate relationship
for a conventional marriage, a desperate question to which he
can only give an answer that is as cruel as it is unreasoned:
"Because I want to!" (63). In a desperate (and unsuccessful)
effort to receive some logical answers from him that will help
resolve the situation even without lessening her pain, she perceptively
touches upon his fear of his own freedom. Her suffering is surely
unnecessary and probably avoidable if Bernard could only recognize
the real motives behind his semi-conscious decision to seek her
again. Instead, he prefers to present their relationship in terms
of sexual rivalry in which the woman is always the traitor, the
sole party responsible for its failure and since it is the man
who is the focalizer in this story, she is tacitly pushed to the
margin, an enigmatic distant figure only partly understood.
However, Winifred
comes across vividly alive, as a woman who seeks to understand
the situation she finds herself in, and tries to establish and
maintain a channel of communication between herself and her partner.
Even though Lawrence presents her as a typical case of the egoistical
modern woman, it is hardly surprising that many elements in her
depiction enable the reader to get a clearer and far more positive
view of her nature, her strong feminine anxiety to be accepted
as she really is, an individual human being looking for love and
passion and respect. This is a clear example, I think, of what
Sandra Gilbert and Suzan Gubar meant by saying that "women
themselves have the power to create themselves as characters"
(Gilbert& Gubar 16) and here Winifred seems to do this successfully
even against the grain of her male author's intentions.
References
1. I use the word "mythicize" from the Greek word mythos:
the heroines of Lawrence share qualities with the Greek mythical
goddesses.
2. In the Greek pantheon, Aphrodite was the goddess of beauty
and love.
3. Hera, Zeus' wife, was the patron goddess of the family and
married women.
4.
Artemis was the goddess of forests and hunting.
Bibliography
Gilbert,
Sandra and Suzan Gubar. The Mad Woman in the Attic. Yale:
Yale University Press, 2000.
Lawrence,
D.H. The Letters of D.H. Lawrence, Volume I. Ed. Boulton
T. James. Cambridge: Cambridge University Press, 1979.
Lawrence,
D.H . Study of Thomas Hardy. Ed. Bruce Steele. Cambridge:
Cambridge University Press, 1986.
Lawrence,
D.H. Collected Short Stories. London: Richard Clay (The
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Lawrence,
D.H . Reflections on the Death of a Porcupine and Other Essays.
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Worthen,
John. D.H. Lawrence: The Early Years 1885-1912. Cambridge:
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Abbreviations
CSS Collected
Short Stories. London: Heinemann Ltd, 1978.
RDP Reflections on the Death of a Porcupine and Other Essays.
Ed. Michael Herbert. Cambridge: Cambridge University Press, 1988.
Study Study of Thomas Hardy. Ed. Bruce Steele. Cambridge:
Cambridge University Press, 1986.
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